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“Why won't she just trust me?”
“Why does she want to dig up shit from the past?”
“What if I don’t want to talk about the things I did a decade ago?” I hear questions like these all the time at our events and in my online groups.
The reality is - most of us men don’t like reliving the shit we’ve done, or don’t see the real point or purpose in talking about the type of man we were in the past.
Some of us want to maintain the image we’ve created today, others still advent worked through the shame or regrets, and others think that because they walked away from it years ago, it has zero effect on who they are today.
But here's the truth… Until you’re able to own your past as a man, your past will own you.
It will become a part of the shadow that you try and hide from the world, and I guarantee it will cause problems in your life.
I know, because this was me to a T(ee), and thousands of men that I’ve worked with over the years. I wanted to trust and respect without having a proven track record to back it up.
The truth is that when we can bring forward our past around other men, work through it, heal from it, and carve a new path forward, we will begin to integrate the lessons we are so desperately trying to prove to the people around us.
So let go of trying to prove to the feminine that your past is perfect and own.

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Our mind are built of the language we use. Should is a word that almost always creates shame, guilt, anger, etc. because it implies that whatever we did or what we’re going to do shouldn’t happen. It should have been different.
We can’t change what happened. So to look back at our past and say “I should have done something different” you are just creating shame. You can’t do anything about the past. It just is.
What I encourage you to do is look back and see what lessons your actions are trying to teach you. What do you want to learn because of them? Not I could have done something differently. It’s what do I want to learn? How do I chose to embrace what actually happened? When we say should we reject what happened and that creates suffering.

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