IT’S NOT THERAPY, IT’S TRAINING

Meet the man who’s helped thousands face their darkness, take back control and awaken their potential.

FOR YEARS, I LIVED A LIFE OF DUALITY…

I bought into the most dangerous rule of men: If you’re struggling, don’t talk about it.

I created an illusion of who I was supposed to be on the outside — the kind, funny, and charismatic guy with a great career and relationship. But on the other side of that facade hid my shadow — the destructive and manipulative version of myself who lied and cheated.

The idea of anyone finding out my truth felt like death.

And then it happened. Someone important to me cracked the illusion wide open, and I couldn’t lie my way out of it this time. To avoid crushing shame, I shut everyone out and ran. One night, while living in the back of my car, my reality hit me like a ton of bricks: I had chosen to completely isolate myself and hide, rather than take ownership of my darkness and face the people I had hurt.

It was then that I realized I only had two options: to continue to hide and silently suffer, or shine light into my deepest corners and start talking about it. It was in that darkest moment that I learned the greatest lesson:

The shadow lives within all of us. And facing it is the first step to awakening your greatest potential…

YOU CAN’T ESCAPE YOUR SHADOW

When you try to run from your shadow, it consumes you and becomes the puppeteer… and you a passive player in your own life.

It can take over in the form of addiction, infidelity, anger, anxiety, analysis paralysis, avoiding healthy habits, depression, sexual dysfunction or deep unfulfillment…

And while truth can sting, the first step in healing your dysfunction is to face these parts of yourself that make you the most human. Your pathway to feeling whole and complete can only be unlocked through understanding and accepting your shadow.
For years, I dove deep into the concepts of Shadow Work, Jungian and Gestalt Psychology, Somatic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and other spiritual practices. I studied directly under a disciple of Carl Jung and became obsessed with understanding the inner workings of the human psyche, and I went in deep to confront my own dysfunction and take back control of my life.

And I’m here to help you do the same.

I’ve developed a multi-disciplinary approach to self-mastery through the gateway of the shadow. Since 2013, I’ve guided thousands of men and women through the dark recesses of their heart, mind, and soul to help them claim their greatest potential.

For many, it is the hardest, yet most rewarding work they have ever done in their lifetime.

F*CK THE FLUFF

Stop waiting for permission. This is your call to show up, go deep, and do the work. My promise is that I’ll meet you where you’re at without judgment, and be your guide on the journey. It’s my sole mission to help you face the parts of yourself that are sabotaging you from living the life you know you’re capable of.

Forget the rose-tinted fluff that shames you for feeling like shit, or the self-help books that only pacify your discomfort. This isn’t therapy — it’s the training you never got in the areas of your life that matter most.

SELF-MASTERY & LEADERSHIP

Gain a deep sense of confidence and take ownership of your thoughts, emotions, and actions so you can consistently show up for yourself and your loved ones… even in the face of uncertainty.

RELATIONSHIPS & INTIMACY

Create relationships that elevate you, set powerful and healthy boundaries, and eradicate any sexual shame or disempowering fears blocking you from experiencing true intimacy and connection.

PURPOSE & SPIRITUALITY

Spirituality isn’t complex. Achieve clarity, direction, and purpose in your life as you establish a deep connection to your authentic self, and find equanimity as you navigate through life’s most challenging transitions.

YOUR JOURNEY TO SELF-MASTERY STARTS HERE

Discover your #1 shadow persona that is sabotaging your your inner power.

WORK WITH ME

Join me for one of my upcoming workshops and get the support of like-minded men and women who will have your back as you step into the ring to fight for what matters most — your relationship, your family and your legacy.

If you’re ready and willing to go deep, smash through your challenges, and be held accountable for unleashing the hidden potential within you, then I might be the coach for you. There’s a reason they call me the “Bullshit Pressure Washer”.

I speak from the heart. I believe that people shift when they’re presented with stories, not statistical data. I’ve shared the stage with the likes of Gary Vaynerchuk, Lewis Howes, and Danielle LaPorte; and delivered talks for Apple and TEDx.

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